Sometimes in certain situations in my life I wonder if I have such unfinished business. Business that I thought I had taken care of... but yet it seems to keep popping up to haunt me. I was sharing this concern with a friend recently. She advised me to take care of it... but my question is really a matter of how? I mean, I know how... but how do you do it without offense? To myself, to other parties, etc? Or how do I do it without opening a can of worms I thought I closed up put on the shelf many years ago? What will help me "cross over" into a new, and likely more exciting, existence? I keep imagining different scenarios of how this might play out, but I also know that the movies in my head are always better than the ones in real life. It's just the way that part of my life goes.
And then there's this question: what is the consequence for not closing this deal? Several thoughts keep coming to mind... 1) you'll have a ghostly existence until you deal with it, and once you do life will be peachy keen... 2) when the time is right, you'll grow out of it and life will be like mom's cherry pie... and 3) sometimes you gotta get off the dead horse and walk and make your own dessert.